Monday, May 22, 2006
Troubled Marriage?
Is there trouble in paradise? There might be if the communication style between you and your spouse is one of avoidance, explosiveness, blaming or non-existent. Life with another person = different needs, understandings and viewpoints! How you as a couple and family communicate and resolve conflicts may determine how often you feel you are living in paradise. As much as it sounds cliche and oversimplistic, it is imperative to tell your your spouse the wonderful things about him or her and to be thankful for the little things that you do for each other, (making breakfast, coffee in the morning, driving to pick up dry cleaning - the small considerate things we do make a big difference if they are noticed). If your spouse feels like they are being taken for granted, there may be built up resentment. If you are sensing or if there are overt difficulties in the areas of money, sex or children, get help now! These are the biggest issues that break down a marriage and the longer you wait to get help the harder it is to repair the "troubled marriage". Contact Us!
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